tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4559844327227210064.post8998289603465203124..comments2023-06-02T05:04:28.255-06:00Comments on Multilocus: I worryLindaCOhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10316183776592482615noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4559844327227210064.post-30732535204141273402010-04-28T08:50:14.340-06:002010-04-28T08:50:14.340-06:00It's a guilt thing...I would have put up with ...It's a guilt thing...I would have put up with SO MUCH to have a family together for my kids. The X solved that by leaving and continuing to be a pain off and on..I'm married to #2 longer now than I was for #1, but it just seems that the first marriage was forever...maybe because I still have to deal with him all the time... I just hope my kids pay more attention to me than to dad on example day...Karen Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18189370281390432351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4559844327227210064.post-8816331870020414402010-04-27T17:06:24.347-06:002010-04-27T17:06:24.347-06:00He is lucky to have you for a mom. In your heart ...He is lucky to have you for a mom. In your heart of hearts you knew you did the right thing. You are showing him how to stand up for yourself, be respectful to others, honor your responsibility, and love your family. You are a wonderful mom and he is a great kid. Love you! LorLorinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4559844327227210064.post-87875478901545058922010-04-27T12:24:41.702-06:002010-04-27T12:24:41.702-06:00I agree with your sense that it's not the divo...I agree with your sense that it's not the divorce so much as the horrible-ness after the divorce that is wounding. After my experience growing up (that you know about), I have a core belief that marriages can't succeed that's come true in my adult life. My younger sister, who didn't have to go through the crap that I went through, has been with her hubby for over 22 years (married for maybe 12?). Mr W sees the long-term give and take and support that goes on between you and X, even though you aren't together, and will learn just fine how to do it himself, I think, as you say in your next post!Jordanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05712893867575841432noreply@blogger.com